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Financial boundaries

Protecting household money is not a punishment. It's how families stay afloat.

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Steps to protect money

  • Open an account in your own name for essential bills.
  • Check your credit report for accounts you don't recognize.
  • Remove the person's access to shared credit cards, or lower limits.
  • Change passwords and PINs; turn on account alerts.
  • Agree that paychecks go to an account you co-manage, if the person is willing.
  • Don't co-sign loans or pay off gambling debts without a broader plan.

If money is being taken or demanded

If someone is stealing, threatening you for money, or controlling your access to it, that may be financial abuse. Your safety comes first — see crisis and emergency guidance.

Tools that may help

Research references

  1. National Problem Gambling Helpline (opens another website)National Council on Problem Gambling (NCPG)Link checked October 17, 2026

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GAREP Editorial (AI-assisted draft)

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Published
October 17, 2026
Updated
October 17, 2026